How To Have Great Sex

6 09 2008

The top 5 things women are looking for:

Men, here is what you have to do…

#5.  Romance

  • Learn how to be a lover of your wife
  • Your job is to awaken the desire that is in her
  • Not just about waking up in the middle of the night and say “Hey, you awake?” (in a redneck accent)
  • You be the instigator, don’t just wait for her to make a move
  • Be her Lover
#4  Foreplay
  • Don’t be lazy.  Our problem is we want it now.  
  • Every time you touch her it doesn’t always need to end up in sex.
  • Don’t use your wife as a release.
#3  Time
  • Statistically a guy lasts an average of 2min…an average (some are less)
  • The goal is not just about pleasing yourself
#2  Safe
  • She need to know that she is safe and private
#1  Exclusivity
  • She has to know that she is the only one for you.  Simple
That my friends is a great list.  This marriage seminar was outstanding.  I came away with so much great knowledge and wisdom that my marriage is only going to get better.  If you did not go to this, you really missed out.  At least get his DVD and watch it.